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A Special Message

You know one of the things I treasure about my best friend, where ever we are in the world, she always sends me letters and postcards. We have been besties since we were 7 year old nippers (mini surf life savers for those that don’t know). Mid May she moved to the UK to be with her brother and his wife who are expecting their first child soon. We are friends on Facebook and Bebo so I can view recent piccies of her trip, and obviously we have each others email addresses and mobile numbers. Still, every week I am receiving letters or cards from her, updating me on her travels. The same thing goes when she is at home in NZ, we still write each other a couple of times a month. The bonus thing is, the cost to post her a card or letter is exactly the same when she is in NZ or in the UK. Its just more of a thrill to get something from her while she is further away having a ball! In this day in age it makes me feel so special, even though its kinda old school, to send letters/cards. I feel good sending them too, because I know it will make the receivers day!

How can I convince my other friends or family to send me letters instead of responding with an email when I write to them?

Does anyone still actually send REAL Birthday cards and Christmas cards these days? Or gifts overseas?

A lousy colleague of mine just buy's gifts on Amazon for his sisters in the UK and gets them delivered to them.. While its the thought that counts, I think its much nicer to still send gifts and wrap them up so its still a surprise when they open the package.

Congratulations to Dabest, Sschmitt, and Tinalou for their contributions to our Special Message Blog. Thank you to every one who participated on this blog. Best regards, OpinionsPaid Team.

Published Wednesday, June 04, 2008 12:26 PM by gillywilly

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dabest said:

i love to write letters and its extremely rare these days to get a letter in the mail. when i get a letter from my best friend, i am pleased because i know that days before, she was sitting down and actually spending time on me. letters are special

you could try writing letters to them and saying that you love opening the letter box and finding letters from the people you love and that you hope that they write back to you soon. it might give them the hint lol

June 4, 2008 2:51 PM
 

malignau said:

unfortunately electronic communication is taking over everything these days. Personally i dont send cards or letters by snail mail anymore, but i guess if im trying communicate with someone who doesnt have the internet (though this is rare these days) then i'd send a letter.

I think the only thing i would give in physical text are birthday and christmas cards. Those i find are worth giving physically to my close friends and family. oh, and receiving too... hopefully =]

June 4, 2008 5:21 PM
 

tinalou said:

My parents and my husband's parents live interstate and in the country so it is very important that we send Birthday, Christmas, Mother's and Father's Day cards to our parents and my kids grandparents.  My Mother-in Law loves to get mail from my daughter with her recent kindy paintings inlcuded.  I know that my mother and mother in law love to receive mail especially when it is addressed to Nana!  After the birth of both my children I made and sent my thank you cards which thrilled my older relatives as this seems to be a thing of the past now.  

June 4, 2008 5:36 PM
 

sschmitt said:

I'm a terrible member of Gen Y but I love receiving snail mail - unfortunately I am really quite the unreliable pen pal! When I do send letters I usually type them and sign at the bottom - not really the same thing, I know, but I get writer's cramp pretty quickly and I type faster than by hand. But I would never consider sending a text message or email (or those terrible e-cards!) instead of a card (for Birthdays, Christmas etc) - and those I do prefer to make myself. They're usually tailored to the person and include my own drawings, origami and doggerel! Emails are handy for keeping in touch, especially with friends and families overseas, but nothing beats receiving a card in the post and knowing that that special someone has picked it just for you and taken the time to write a note.

June 4, 2008 7:33 PM
 

dabest said:

to those who cannot write because of medical problems or those that just dont like to write, you could buy a small writing pad with smaller pages and write big and fill up tho pages which would only be about half an a4 page but it would really be appreciated by the person you sent it to :)

June 4, 2008 7:59 PM
 

dabest said:

tho = two

my fingers are frozen lol

June 4, 2008 8:13 PM
 

nancy.powell said:

I still send letters of appreciation, birthday and Christmas cards too, just to tell the people you love and friends that they are always in your thoughts no matter how far or near they may reside. Distance has no measure for those you care, and times does not matter.  

Orient

June 4, 2008 11:02 PM
 

Tom said:

sometimes I do send it if the person don't have the computer at the time... or the person doesn't know how to use the computer at all, also I use it if I am sending a gift... I will add a card too...

June 5, 2008 7:42 AM
 

suzy.dajic said:

awww what a realy nice comment well I share a house with my best freind have know her for about 22 years now love her heaps

June 5, 2008 11:02 AM
 

leanneleggieri said:

I think it's awesome getting snail mail! Unfortuneatly all I get via snail mail is BILLS!! I had a birthday recently and got a birthday card from one of my close friends mum! I was stoked, it was such a surprise!! I do give birthday cards and mothers day cards, although I always say I'm going to send Chrissy cards I never get around to it! Bugger it I'm going to send them this year!! lol :)

June 5, 2008 11:08 AM
 

dabest said:

i dont send christmas cards anymore. i buy a present for $50 (what it would cost me for cards and stamps) and i put it under the kmart wishing tree. all my friends and family know that i do this and theyre all happy to go without a card because they know that someone will be smiling on christmas day because of us :)

June 5, 2008 12:06 PM
 

darkmystical said:

yep, waste of paper! save the trees, send an email LOL!

June 6, 2008 4:47 PM
 

kinginPerth said:

ya i agree

June 12, 2008 5:32 AM
 

aidaanuwi said:

When I was in boarding school for two years, I wrote to my best friend every day. Well, at least a page. I made it sort of a diary. Telling her all the stories that happened right from the orientation to the day I graduated. It was very touchy when I returned home and read it all over again. But the best part was. She'll wrote me at least once a week and it'll be like 10 pages long. It showed how we missed each other and loved to be around each other again. Back then I rarely wrote to my family. I rang them instead.

As for now, I'm in Melbourne, married to my loved one, my parents and siblings are all back in Malaysia including my best mates. I still wrote them, especially during special occasions. I found out that with every mail, every card that I wrote them, will bring me back all the memories and often I cried. I miss them very much. It feels different if you write mail and e-mail to your loved ones. Trust me. I've been away from my family for 5 years now. And always feel very excited for my next trip back to Malaysia *_*

Well... just a thought...

Cheers!

July 25, 2008 12:37 AM
 

CruiseCaroline said:

I have fallen out of the habit of writing letters due to using e-mail.  I am going to start writing again though, it is a very calming thing to do and I find that I express myself better in my writing rather than email.  I have a best friend of 20 years and we used to write all the time when we went our separate ways, now we only speak on the phone every couple of months and communicate via email.  I think we will enjoy writing to each other again!  Gonna start today!

August 15, 2008 6:20 AM
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